he is so grown up!

i can't believe how big my 3 year old is getting!
we've recently started (not for the first time though!) some new things and he is doing great this time around. i guess he really is growing up.
a long time ago we tried to wean him from the binky, but it didn't work and i ended up getting lazy. we decided to give it another shot this past weekend, thanks in part to the dentist reminding us that he needed to give it up, preferably by 3. i was biting my nails because the last time we did it resulted in lots of sleepless nights and nightmares. this time has been much smoother, though not without its little bumps. our incentive is a goldfish, just like dorothy on elmo's world. ethan has been collecting quarters in his money jar (he is able to get one at bedtime, one in the morning and one at naptime if he doesn't cry or ask for a binky) and once he gets 14 we'll go to buy a fish! he is very excited, though he has been trying to negotiate a bit. yesterday at naptime he told me that if he didn't get a dorothy fish then he could have his binky back. he is obviously understanding the concept that he only gets one or the other. he tried that again this morning. it is really hard not to laugh when he asks, because he has a little smirk on his face like he KNOWS exactly what he is doing. today was our first fallback. he had found an extra binky of miles' and had it this morning, so no quarter. but all in all, much better than last time and i bet by next week we will have a new pet in the house.
we've also been working on potty training and i think this time he FINALLY has it. it took some extra hard measures of some negative reinforcement (definitely not my first choice, but nothing else was working, so we agreed to try it) and it worked. quickly too. while he still is having some accidents here and there, i haven't cleaned out a pair of poopy underwear in over a week. YAY! huge accomplishment.
so, my big boy is showing me that he is grown up and ready to take on new things. i am so proud of him!




































